friends and foe?

FRIENDS AND FOE? ANYONE?




Friends or foe? nah... now, in this world, friends and foe are indistinguishable. Hey, hey... it does not mean that everyone has the same perception. But, the saying "keep your friends close, and your enemy closer" - how should we define this? We should befriended to our enemies in order to crush them down, because we know their weakness and we feel -aah...this is her weakness - and you have to plan a plot to get her down on her face? This might not be the situation that we always face. Sometimes, the enemy that we hate so much will be our closest friend we ever knew! Even closer than the friends that we had! How should we define this? Do not judge a book by it's cover??







There are lot of "unfair" things in this world we seek assurance by asking others' opinions and they will give you the answers that you have predicted...example - 1. It is life, you know...2. We are not perfect, humans make mistakes... 3. No body's perfect, so don't bother 4. Just forget about it. Let bygones be bygones... - this list will continue, and continue, and on, and on, and on......




Living in this world in not just to fulfill our needs and desires. We have friends, and we are friends to someone (let me put it this way, we are friends to everybody) okay... and we do good things to our friends, helping them in sadness and happiness...primarily...and we expect for our friends to do the same. But, do we really expect something in return? My answer is, of course! Why did I say this? Not everyone wants to do things by getting nothing out of it? Do we work for free? No. We work for money. The money is used for our daily purposes, to eat, drink, and to buy things necessarily for our lives! Most important of all, why DO WE WANT FRIENDS? No man is an island, and definitely, we cannot live on our own! Try for a day... you will go crazy of boredom...






Now, we have difficulties to differentiate who are the friends and who are not. They might just want to be your friends because they have that "hidden agendas" which sooner or later, you will discover by yourself, and realize or not, you will get hurt because... wait>>> is this your fault? or their fault?? I do not have the answer... and I do not want to think!

The kinds of people who really just want to have friends with purposes unknown (which they, themselves know....that is TO HURT) really will leave huge impact of a person's life. Whether we like it or not, we are not perfect, and we DO HURT, we DO MAKE MISTAKES, we DO HATE, we DO JAUNDICED, we do make our life a LIVING H**L sometimes. However, sensibility prevent us from doing these things too.... overly, I can say, "overdose" that is why we still maintain the relationship. Sometimes, we do not want FRIENDS AND FOE together as it HURTS and, damn... it is COMPLICATED.

What if a friend tells you that she will get out of your life before you know it, and she misses the time when you were GONE? Perhaps, when she says that you have misunderstood the friendship and all this while you and her are NOTHING? that your friendship has no VALUE? HURTING is what BEST we do. LOVING is hard. Non?





Whatever happens, we still have ourselves to think and reflect what we have done, what we want to do. We need FRIENDS, and FRIENDS need us. Please do not be to ego and hypocrite. WE only APPRECIATE what we have LOSE, they are not OURS, but we VALUE them because we truly CARES. So, if you think it is such a WASTE of TIME, go and try to live by yourself, embrace yourself without anyone who cares. Feel, how it feels.

p/s: This entry is not directed to anyone who reads this post, but it is just based on what I have heard, what I have seen and it is a personal view.

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Never mind others,

if you have forgiven what others have done to you, but they still do hurt you, just PRAY and you will go it through.....